What I believe about? Truth

I believe that truth help to build good relations between people. To start the good relation with someone, we should get the trust from him or her first. To get trust from him or her, we should only tell him or her the truth. People do not give any trust to anyone if he or she tells untruth things to them. My parents always told me that I should not lie to anyone even some people who I do not like. Lie to other people is making my position really down to the bottom. No one likes a person who lies to them and other people. They have no trust to that person so they tend to not get along with him or her.

For example, if someone wants to get a job but later the owner finds out that he or she has no trust at all and do not tell the truth every time, they cannot get jobs anymore. Truth need for everything that we need. If you go to new places that you never been before, and meet new people, to build good relationship with them, you should tell them only the truth and build the trust. Most of people always remember other people’s first appearance. How they act first, how they treat them like, and how they were look like. People actually remember the first appearance most so we should be marked as trustful person to other people. We can also change our personality that other people think about me but they will still remember the first time we meet together. Especially, the business people need trust from the partner to start the business together. The most important thing to start the business with other people is not the having good experiences about the their work but having a trust between them. If they do not have any trust each other they cannot start their business. They have to discuss first but if they cannot believe each other then they do not want to tell truth to each other.

We also should have good trust from our families. If we do not act well inside the house, it is same as outside. We think we do not lie outside but we do if we are not telling the truth to our own families. Before we get other people’s trust, we should have the trust from our families by saying them only the truth. If we are not telling the truth to others, we are also lying to ourselves. If we lie to someone, we get most damage. When I was young, my parents always told me not to tell untruth things to other people. It’s going to damage me the most. So our family number rule is do not lie. One time, I lie to my friend, so I lost the good relationship with her. I decide not to lie anymore, because I got personal experience about it.

Truth is the way to help to build good relations between people but it also the way to tell how our personalities are like to others. Most people go to a person who actually tell truth and have more trust. If you want bright future with having good relationship with other people, you should say the truth things to them. People do not want to associate with a person who has no trust at all.