How do I connect to others?

            Each person has his or her favorite person and dislike person. Usually it is because everyone has different personality and different life background. To some people I will marked as a good, kind, or well manner person, in the other side, some people really dislike me. I also have some people that I really like, some people I really dislike, and some people I really want to avoid. There are lots of reasons that we all do not like some people. If I do not like some people, they also do not like me because I do not want to behave well to them and they are too. Who would like to treat people well if they dislike him or her? I actually have more good relationship with people than I have people that we do not like each other. I try not to make enemies in my life. If I grow up and go out to the society, there will be lots of people who hate me a lot. But right now, I am still teenager and I do not want to make hard situation with people around me. If it happens it’s going to disturb me to study

I have lots of friends in Korea and especially Cheonga Dalton International School. Most of them are having good relation with me but they are not each other. There are some groups that they hate each other. They always talk about other groups in bad ways and both groups of people are my friends. I try not to listen what they talk about each other and I just go outside and talk with other people instead. Of course, they all have different parents, background, and friends around them but because of their own personalities they just talk bad things to each other. I just try not to involve in that situation. Sometimes I just make them to talk about other topics. I know some of my friends talk about me when I am not there and some of them are talking bad things about me. Even that is not really important to talk about. I also talk bad thing about other people if I do not like them. I just want to get rid of stress that I got it from them.

I have really bad memory about Malaysia friends. I went to International School that is in Malaysia. When it was end of 7^th grade, I ended up with almost no friends. They had so different thought as me so we can be together anymore. We just cannot understand each other. I think because of that memories, I try hard to not make enemies and try not to talk about other people even it is good or bad.

As I said earlier, I have more people who think me as good person than I am bad person. I want to keep this relationship. I know there will be lots of people who will go to hate me a lot later I grow up. The society is organized by lots of people who have very different life experiences. Also, if we want to keep good relationship with other people do not contact them if we are only need their help. This is the reason why we are having more people who do dislike us. Even if you get few extra times, try to contact them. My father told me about his friends who just call him if they need my father’s help and my father just ignores their contact. I think to be in good relationship with other people is depends on that person’s behavior of other people.

It is better to live in the city or town than to move from one place to another. Do you agree or disagree?

I am disagree with “It is better to live in the city or town that to move from one place to another.” I have personal experiences of moving one place to another since I was young. I used to live in Busan since I was baby but then our whole family had to move to Seoul because of my father’s work. He usually stayed in Seoul during weekdays and come to Busan during weekend. He did these for more than 5 years so our family decided to move. After I stayed in Seoul for one and half year I moved to Malaysia to study in foreign country. I stayed there for less than one year and I moved to Saipan. My parents also move our house to different places for two times since I was in Malaysia. However, to some people, they think it is bad ideas to move a lot for short period. But I think it was great experience to me to live in many different cities and towns. I know lots of place in Korea because I moved a lot. But I only stayed in hot countries, still now so if I have chance to move again later, I want to live in cold place.

 I lost many friends because I moved a lot but I also got new good friends. When I stayed in Korea for six month, I went to Cheongna Dalton International School. I got lots of friends there and I am still contact with them. If I lose something, there will be also new things coming. I also thing, trying new things is good. Just staying in the same place has not much fun. I actually like to try new things and visit new places and learn. If I stay in one place, we always see same thing that we saw yesterday. I think to move to many different places, help us to think more new things and might help us to have more experience about many places. Of course, when I first went to Seoul I was so disappointed I could not meet my friend in Busan anymore. But I can e-mail to them or write letter and send it to them. I actually did that when I came to Seoul but I don't do that anymore because we have different lives. Sometimes I miss my elementary friends but now I looking forward to see more new things.

 

There are some disadvantages and advantages of moving place to other place.

But I think there are more advantages than disadvantages. First time I move to Seoul I complain a lot to my parents. At that time I thought I finally got first true friends but I have to move. I begged them to move next year but I couldn’t. However, if I didn’t move to Seoul I think I’m probably not in Saipan right now. There was opportunity that I went to Malaysia and came to Saipan because I move to Seoul when I was 5^th grade. One of my friends told me that she would go to Philippines for language study abroad during summer break. So I also want to go foreign country to study English and I went to Malaysia and went school in Malaysia for 6 months and came to Saipan. I think the only reason that I am disagreeing with “It is better to live in the city or town than to move from one place to another.” is because I have personal experience.